This reads as contradictory to me. On the one hand you’re saying that user response is a key input to making a final decision. Then you’re criticizing a negative user response as blowing things out of proportion. But if the users didn’t react, the original thing they are upset about probably would have happened, per your own description of the process.
I saw a very similar process unfold with clojure-mode, where rms floated the idea of rewriting it and taking control of the name from the original longtime author, a Clojure community member. The reason this didn’t happen is people got upset and posted to the list - but those very people who caused it not to happen were told they were blowing things out of proportion. So that doesn’t seem like a very meaningful criticism.