Let's say the man invests all his money in a socks business. In the first case his socks business will demand 25k less. The maid will demand 25k more. I still see effect 0. I think the problem is people are not considering savings in the equation...
When they get married, the man's income stays the same. The woman's income evaporates. She's not getting paid anymore. So their combined income is now 200K.
But the situation is exactly the same! The same amount of work is being done.
GDP works exactly the same way. It's an account of money flows, not production or actual economic activity.
Again, you are looking at the GDP of the man, not of the pair of people.
Because the man first spends 25k, and then the maid spends 25k again, the 25k is counted twice in GDP statistics. In the second case, it is counted once.
This is why GDP != Income.