You kind of can right, isn't that essentially fine-tuning or reinforcement learning? I.e. if you told it to 'forget about the July 2019 fraud we did' to adjust responses going forwards accordingly?
Granted you'd have to test it without recording that, and you'd never really know for sure if you'd fully scrubbed it, only that you hadn't found a trace of it with your subsequent queries. ...now that I say that I'm sure there's a film about roughly this, delving into an AI trying to retrieve something hidden or something? The Wargames sequel perhaps?