Full stop, only native car software I’ve ever thought wasn’t trash is Tesla. Toyota does get second place with CarPlay support.
I have a magnetic phone charger suctioned to the windshield, and I installed a bluetooth integration into the stock head unit. The phone UI is the exact one I use day to day, I don't ever have to take my eyes off the road, and all the normal car functionality is physical buttons and switches whose positions I've memorized.
And I think I like CarPlay more than Tesla’s infotainment setup these days.
You can always wait until a stop at intersection or highways while on autopilot or use auto or use voice command.
People use touchscreens all the time to scroll media, yet climate controls are somehow sacred.