This is a situation where rote memorization will make your life easier.
It's absurdly terrible. Racist and sexist, not to mention grossly inappropriate for a preteen.
So of course I remembered it instantly, and permanently. I've spoken it aloud maybe twice in my life (among trusted friends and with a longer version of the above disclaimer!), but it rings in my head every single time I even glance at the colored bands on a resistor.
The one I learned (I guess I have to call it "mine") is an amalgamation of a couple of those.
It's the "Violet gives willingly" version, with extra offensiveness to resolve 0 from 1.
If you're into the super cool discrete analog stuff than learning it for real makes sense though!