What Go does here is kinda moot nowadays, since HTTP/2.0 and HTTP/3.0 force all header names into lower-case, so they would also break non-conformant clients and servers.
I think most people here don’t have any experience building for the kind of use cases I’m considering here (imagine a proxy like Envoy, which btw does give you at least the option to configure header casing transformations). When you have customers that can’t be forced to behave in a certain way up/down stream, you have to deal with this kind of stuff.
If my memory serves me right, we did use Traefik at work in the past, and I remember having this issue with some legacy clients, which didn't expect headers to be transformed. Or perhaps the issue was with Envoy (which converts everything to lowercase by default, but does allow a great deal of customization).