> If you end up needing a hospital stay, you could be in trouble if the "wrong" doctors do a drive-by.
This is not true since the No Surprises Act went into effect Jan 1, 2022. Everything is considered in network in an emergency, and if a doctor works in an in network hospital, then the doctor is considered in network too.
Usually in an emergency I don't have the presence of mind to direct the ambulance to the right hospital (in case the emergency turns into an overnight stay), and it's all the more important if the plan doesn't have good (or any) out of network benefits.
By "insist," I mean that leaving would be against medical advice -- and I know some insurance will refuse to pay for the preceding stay.
I wish this stuff weren't so hard to make sense of.
Who knows how well it works in practice.