"Dealing with failure is easy: Work hard to improve. Success is also easy to handle: You've solved the wrong problem. Work hard to improve." Alan Perlis, Epigrams in Programming (#101) http://www.cs.yale.edu/quotes.html
liked the bit about "blame everybody, and then blame yourself (because you are the real cause)". Wouldnt a lot of world's problem be solved if people actually started blaming themselves? Ofcourse lawers may not like that option as it dries out their chances of suing someone frivolously!!