There is no way you can delete your information from all of them [period].
My personal recommendations to lessen data-associations:
1) Actually use cash
2) Shop at places which don't require membership (e.g. for discounts)
3) Buy a domain name which allows you to `catch-all@your.domain` and then give each requestor a unique-to-them "email address" e.g. WalMart @ JoeSmith2222333.com
4) Don't carry your cell phone with you everywhere; Don't sleep with your phone
5) Remove/unplug/disable voice assistants
6) Run LLMs/ChatGPT on local instances
7) Have your DHCP auto-issue an IP to your own local DNS server (e.g: PiHole)