"Since Hamas cannot be defeated in this way, it stands to reason" It can and it doesn't. Of course Hamas can be militarily defeated, its military infrastructure dismantled.
"No, they're not, they're just repeating their "but Hamas" stuff" Yes, they are
"What? Name one. What Palestinians actors have talked bout how there are no innocent Israelis?"
https://nypost.com/2023/11/01/news/hamas-official-vows-to-re...
"Right now, you're saying Isreali is justified in its actions, which is leading to killing and starvation of civilians en masse"
This is a war, you can't say Israeli actions are leading to killing of civilians, because this war has two sides, two players. At a minimum, the actions of Hamas have effects on civlians. At the very minimum, misfired rockets that they fire at Israel are known to fall on the heads of civilians injuring and killing them. The war could end if Hamas decicded to end it, not just Israel
"IDF soldiers are making their TikToks."
IDF has hundreds of thousands of soldiers, so 5 of them made a tiktok, so what? it's irrelevant.