About 30% of married mothers don’t work outside the home, according to BLS statistics [1]. You may want to consider the possibility that the sample of people you know is very unrepresentative.
> The modern marriage has the home workload split equally and very often outsourced.
In “egalitarian” marriages where the husband and wife earn about the same amount of money, wives on average spend more than twice as much time on household chores and 40% more time on caregiving, according to Pew [2].
> Couldn't read the paywalled Opinion article on WaPo
It’s easy enough to get around the paywall to read the Opinion article from a law professor who specializes in child custody in divorce, but I guess you’d rather just continue to hold on your persecution complex.
[1] https://www.bls.gov/news.release/pdf/famee.pdf
[2] https://www.npr.org/2023/04/13/1168961388/pew-earnings-gende...