I cannot vote you down in my head hard enough simply because you have completely discounted the entire sexual experience of many women by relegating female sexuality to the emotive realm.

Women use and enjoy porn the same as men do - visual to physiological and to release. Period.

Porn is beneficial to women in many ways as consumers. Until people wake up to this, revenue streams and culture (of consent and equality, experience and discourse) alike will be hobbled.

Your heart is in the right place. But you're missing the rest of reality, as is this entire HN discussion.