Ask HN: Help me find back a HN post on the importance of traditions and rituals?

I read this on HN, probably a year or so ago, and cannot find it back. It was a nice write-up that, essentially, talked about why traditions and social conventions/rituals (e.g. marriage/weddings, going to church, etc.) are actually important despite being typically scorned by the kind of crowd found on HN.

I would love to read it again.