I don't know the details of how "valid" works, but as the Apple root program has recently required CAs to publish full CRLs, I assume they're planning something similar.
I mostly cite CRLite as it's well-documented.
I don't think OCSP must-staple is deployable. It requires code changes to effectively every webserver in the world, and that doesn't seem to be happening. I think it is stuck in a spiral of non-adoption, where there's no incentive for anyone to make progress. I believe short-lived certs (7 days) are more deployable in the ecosystem today than ocsp must-staple, with similar security properties. Certificate automation is already desirable, and it's not as big a leap once flows are automated.
This isn't going to happen overnight at least. Years, probably many. But it's happening.