Or challenge your views! You don’t need to switch parties. But more often than not, the difference is one of prioritising different issues more than disagreeing on hot-button ones. Or, where there is disagreement, disagreeing on aspects versus the conventional packaging of the issue.
The difference when choosing a long term mate and starting a family makes the stakes higher. Ideology will dictate customs, schooling, etc..
I do respect married folks who can vote down political lines and stay happily married. These people have a lot to learn from.
I recall a moving story to me on ... "This American Life" on NPR, which had a story about the most moving way for people to change their minds on polarizing issues, is to spend lots of time talking & hanging out with people who lived personally with whatever is the opposing views in a civil manner.
The example at the time was based on groups not accepting the gay lifestyle spending time with those who were.
But just because you try, doesn't mean the other person is ready to accept. So like in chaos theory, you have to plan on failure..... hope for success.
No.
To change your own mind? Absolutely.
(personally, I found voting with my feet a much more effective use of my time than attempting anything political in my home country)
Got more info on this?
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Ishbg1AE3snak_yOTLK0hPsvy_4...
> It’s not an argument you can win, especially if you win. (Couples who live together learn this about certain arguments.)
> Instead, you’ll be amazed how bonding it is when four people wrestle an old washing machine out of the brown water that none of them could have managed alone. This is called a superordinate goal, and social psychologists can cite many studies that show it really does open doors between groups.
Being an academic, he should have the relevant literature cites somewhere if you prefer primary sources.