But I'm more optimistic about that and don't believe your empty threats. If the NATO strengthens its eastern border, Russia's military has simply no chance there. It's a suicide, it doesn't make sense to bang your head against the wall. Russia has many other weaker neighbors it can abuse instead.
> Ukraine was in the process of ditching its buffer state status by choosing a side.
Ukraine was invaded because it wanted to get closer to EU in the form of the association agreement.
Interestingly, the roughly analogous CIS was never a problem in this concept of "buffer state". Or does "buffer state" actually mean "Russia-aligned"?
And that's the crux of the issue. You can stay as a buffer state only as long as you're a Russian puppet.