Regular cat5 is only rated at 100mbit.
5e will handle gigabit, and I've seen 5 work for short runs too.
5e will handle gigabit, and I've seen 5 work for short runs too.
5 has the same bandwidth as 5e but allows more crosstalk. And gigabit is intended to work on cat5. If gigabit is not working on cat5 cables <50m, I put my money on there being something wrong with the hardware/install in that house.
I have 10g-base-t running reliably on cat5e as well. (30ish meters)