I do not believe that the place people should hold documentation is "in their heads".
I do not believe that Hyrum's "Law" is helpful in getting to a situation where people's beliefs about what software will do match reality.
This isn't the first time I've come across people (particularly around the Rust community) who have got the idea into their heads that saying "reading documentation is important" is somehow close to saying "Real programmers don't make mistakes". I think that conflation is doing great harm.