If you look at the cars we drive (a 2005 Honda CR-V and a 2015 Nissan LEAF), I doubt any significant status is accruing to us from those choices. [I am much more often asked "why do you still drive cars like this?!" than "Oooh, nice car!"]
My ideal condition would be to have assets that would be able to provide a fully secure income stream in retirement but for no stranger to be able to reasonably guess that we have that.
High status, conspicuous consumption, gram-worthy life, indeed.
https://www.mrmoneymustache.com/2012/01/13/the-shockingly-si...
A. If I care what people think, but work to communicate that I don't, that's pretty obviously counter-signaling.
B. If I genuinely don't care what people think, but my actions are outwardly indistinguishable from those in A, is that counter-signaling?
* - the inspection of the entrails of sacrificed animals