A Corolla sedan is +30% weight over a model 3.
https://www.carsized.com/en/cars/compare/toyota-corolla-2018...
Those numbers you present are a little inflated when it comes to like for like currently. Furthermore, there are combustion engine vehicles which are far far heavier than EV 4wd's.
Acceleration is not performed under braking either so I don't see your latest point.
Many EV's whilst engine braking is applied, also apply the brake lights.
Quote from Tesla's website for Low and Standard regenerative braking "Standard: Provides the maximum amount of regenerative braking. When you release the accelerator, Model Y slows down, reducing the need to use the brakes."
The effect of regenerative braking in an EV is much greater than that of an ICE under engine braking.