I appreciate the point that you are trying to make, but your issue seems to be largely about my tone and the 'patronizing' nature of my argument, and not about the argument itself. I still think you are swinging largely at ghosts here, as it's not particularly patronizing that I take what conservatives say at face value: waterboarding is necessary to protect our country, and same-sex marriage/civil unions jeopardize the foundations of family and community. This is their position, publicly and privately. The stance I presume to be "horrible" is that 'waterboarding is not torture' (it is) and that explicitly denying gay couples equal treatment under the law is constitutional (it isn't.) Take these for what they are worth, I stand by them, and maybe I'm wrong for presuming them in my argument. If there are more nuanced points here and I am on one side of a highly subjective issue, would enjoy hearing them. (note I am aware of more subtle variations of these arguments, eg, that other forms of coercion are legal and ethical, or that gay couples should be granted civil unions, but I do not feel these are mainstream conservative viewpoints, as we've learned by seeing NC pass a law banning both civil unions and marriage and mainstream conservatives defending, and enacting policies to enable waterboarding.)

Also, the tactic of patronizing me in a manner to make me realize I am being patronizing, while clever, doesn't really open me up to being receptive to hearing what you have to say.

You don't often see conservatives in America arguing the subtle role of government and where the line can be drawn on these issues, and where it ought to be drawn. This is the conversation that we should be having on these topics, and we are not. However, they are quick to point out where government intervention goes too far in some areas, such as in tax law. This asymmetry is striking and leads me to believe there is something deeper going on.

My original post was postulating a clear, at least to me, example of two issues that have been strategically complected with other portable ideas to most of America. This process results the arguments we hear rest not upon the ethical/moral/legal nature of the acts themselves, but upon the potential consequences of not doing them. This is a red flag: it points to arguments that are coming from somewhere, but not from the overt facts and historical context of those specific issues, but deeper, more subtle shared values that override those matters. There is a reason, after all, that it is the right wing in this country identifies themselves as "values voters" and has "values voter summits." Its because they share these common ideals and their views on specific issues often framed in a way to fall out of these ideals.

My point is that the right wing media perverts and simplifies issues in order to shoehorn them into fitting into this ideological framework to make them portable to many people. The nice thing about controlling the message is that you can often find arguments to tie either side of an issue to general, broad ideals. The result, of course, is massive surface-level hypocrasy ("Get your government hands off my medicare") but internal, hidden, consistency due to the fact that their views tie back to a few basic ideals.

It is this phenomenon I was getting at with my post, and I was hoping you would attack these points more directly, instead of coming to the defense of classical conservatism (which I am not attacking, and is largely dead) and telling me I am being patronizing by saying people are being manipulated despite the well understood, documented, and measured phenomenon of Fox News in the U.S. misleading viewers and manipulating them by tying complicated issues to very simplistic ideals in a way that suits their agenda and takes reasoned debate off the playing field.

I won't reply to your next response in order to give you the last word. I appreciate you making the time to respond to my posts and I hope on good faith you will restrain yourself from further ad hom attacks and your, as you admit yourself, patronizing tone.