And then after a couple of years people will realise that Postgres can do everything the trendy database can do and come back to Postgres. Happens every decade. This is at least 'hype cycle' 3 for Postgres since I started my career.
You're not wrong here, although you could just as easily say "99% of people who recommend $DB barely know how to use it."
Databases remain a mysterious black box to entirely too many people, despite the three largest (SQLite, Postgres, MySQL) being open source, and having extensive documentation.
I've come to the conclusion that most devs don't care about infra in the slightest, and view a DB as a place to stick data. When it stops working like they want, they shrug and upsize the instance. This is infuriating to me, because it's the equivalent of me pushing a PR to implement bogosort, and when told that it's suboptimal, dismissing the criticism and arguing that infra just needs to allocate more cores.
> First, a whole army of developers writing JavaScript for the browser started self-identifying as “full-stack”, diving into server development and asynchronous code.
> ...early JavaScript was a deeply problematic choice for server development. Pointing this out to still green server-side developers usually resulted in a lot of huffing and puffing.
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