> In particular if someone gives up on looking for a job because they're too discouraged,
I've never understood that either; do other people just not have to pay rent or buy groceries? How do you "give up looking for a job"? I understand becoming a stay at home parent, but what else would make it so you "give up" looking for paid work?
This isn't a rhetorical question, I am actually asking because I feel like I'm missing something.