I'm curious to know what you consider most important?
But decoupling engagement from revenue puts you in a mindset that leads to more interesting product decisions. For example, the "love it" button on Modcloth might only be weakly correlated with revenue for the people loving it, but has secondary effects when it comes to sharing on Facebook (distribution) and filtering products by "love" for other customers (monetization for those other users).
More simply: a user who never buys a single thing but shares your site with 1,000 people who then do buy something is really valuable. A revenue-only mindset makes it hard to see that.
I'd prioritize retention over engagement, personally, or maybe the author means engagement in a way that encompasses retention.