Does this seem odd to anyone else?

This adult in their 30s:

(1) Goes on a date with someone he calls a 'girl'

(2) Think the date went well (it likely didn't)

(3) Never reflects on why it didn't go well (at least he doesn't write about it)

(4) He then talk to a self-proclaimed psychopath with the hope of actionable advice for giving no effs in the future

(5) Gets micro-dosing curious (which is a lot of self experimentation)

...and all that instead of maybe changing how he approaches dates? Then he writes about it.

If this isn't gorilla advertising for magic mushrooms, it is a lot of work to avoid a small amount of self-reflection. I know firsthand that being single post 20s isn't anyone's idea of a party, but still.