It's far less complicated than you make it out to be. I'm on whichever side that doesn't deem it acceptable to deliberately kill kids by the thousand. Whatever else you type does not change that determination.
Unfortunately, that side doesn’t exist in this world. Civilians have died in every war ever known to man. Whether they are kids or not is completely irrelevant.
Glibly dismissing this as "shit happens" is soul-rot.
If you really believe that, I’ve got a bridge to sell you. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_ongoing_armed_confli...
https://news.un.org/en/story/2024/03/1147512
There's even a picture, if that helps. Hope you kept the receipt for that bridge.
The article also mentions like 6 different UN agencies and is directly on the main UN website.
Anything else you want to get dramatically wrong to defend the world's most documented genocide?