Yes and setting up your own CDN config (Cloudfront, whatever) is minutes of work and brings all of the benefits you’ve outlined. And costs pennies.
2. For saving bandwidth on the server are you using proper cache setup with etags and If-Modified-Since support? It shouldn't have to download a first party asset again if it's in the cache. It's worth pointing out that non-ancient versions of all major web servers do this by default.
3. Haven't you now added latency by first making users download the loader script, have that execute, and then start loading the dependencies?
2) Yes. I should also mention at the time mobile browser cache was not consistent/reliable.
3) The "loader script" is a basic if(!lib.func) { do the magic }. Its one extra thing I suppose. For the overall page load there are lower hanging fruit.
That's still a 100-200ms if the user is not on the same continent as your server.