no I think its extremely infantile behaviour to use light sarcasm when discussing serious matters
Sincere and explicit statements of horror have paradoxical outcomes because such words wear thin. They are overused by the disengenuous to wound others. The sincere are forced onto a semantic treadmill seeking different ways to express themselves.
So, in reality, sarcasm is actually a very grown-up thing to engage in. That doesn't necessarily mean one should.