This kind of logic is akin to saying mesh networks are all we need to deliver reliable internet to everyone. No, CTTH, FTTH or satellite is what we need to deliver reliable internet to everyone, and those require big infra.
Furthermore, to a point in the article that folks on Ars are spouting, if everyone is charging during off-peak hours, then those aren't off-peak any more. They're now on-peak hours.
Grids are required to deliver steady reliable power even under peak usage. 10x is likely an underestimation of how much extra capacity we will need if everyone switches to EVs.