If you live in a high tax and high CoL place now, 80K/year might not be enough to save anything
That plus gas, rent, utilities would leave plenty for food… like ramen and bulk rice.
That's where the retirement money went. If you expect to be able to die without tapping the retirement account, you will have a problem. You need a reverse mortgage or to sell out and go back to renting.
You cant afford a downtown penthouse/mansion on SF & NY with 200k, but you can absolutely buy a home in both locations.
$200k in some cities is not a lot of money
$200k in some cities with 2 kids is really not a lot of money
$200k is not equal to $200k
I read it that way because of this:
>my income has gone up 8x in 10 years and I'm still barely keeping up with the cost of things, barely any real savings, etc.
Salary that low and you're not keeping up, you're falling behind. It's entirely possible to make 8X as much and feel you're barely advancing. While this is progress, it's not very satisfying progress because it feels that falling back into the previous pit is not really ever very far away.