Lol this is the myth isn't it.
Reality is getting screamed at by a toddler while you single-handedly build a depression era shack in desert wasteland for 40k, while simultaneously working full time and somehow caring for your kids too. Spend your time tearing your hair out, essentially working 3 full-time jobs while paying for daycare, rent, and construction materials so despite all this work your financials go into a black hole.
My parents did send me a $100 Lowes gift card, so there is that. At least now I can do ghetto job of pretty much any building trade.
It's mostly that having a kid lites the fire under your ass, not so much others are helping because they usually don't.