If your point of view is that you value the ability to execute code from random places on the internet more than security, perhaps that is the point you should have been making from the start.
However, iOS makes the security trade off in the other direction.
All an app's executable code must go through the app vetting process, and additional executable code cannot be added to the app without the app going through the app vetting process all over again.
In contrast, Google has been unable to quash malware like Joker from inside the Play store because the malware gets downloaded and installed after the app makes it through the app vetting process and lands on a user's device.
> Known as Joker, this family of malicious apps has been attacking Android users since late 2016 and more recently has become one of the most common Android threats...
One of the keys to Joker’s success is its roundabout attack. The apps are knockoffs of legitimate apps and, when downloaded from Play or a different market, contain no malicious code other than a “dropper.” After a delay of hours or even days, the dropper, which is heavily obfuscated and contains just a few lines of code, downloads a malicious component and drops it into the app.
https://arstechnica.com/information-technology/2020/09/joker...
iOS not having constant issues with malware like Joker inside their app store has nothing to do with "security through obscurity" and everything to do with making a different set of trade offs when setting up the security model.