If you want to feel richer, look on Amazon/AliExpress and try to remember what stuff like that used to cost decades ago. It's not BS, it's very real. It's amazing how cheap random knickknacks are now.
But, you're right -- it's a pyrrhic victory because I'd rather own my own home and have a tough time affording a breadmaker and blender than rent forever and easily afford having all the gadgets that I do, and I think most people feel similarly.
Edit: Also probably because I remember when the dollar had WAY more purchasing power, so my baseline is skewed already. But this "increase" in purchasing power is just a return to more normal levels. This data feels more relatable.. slightly less purchasing power since 2019 https://www.bls.gov/cpi/factsheets/purchasing-power-constant...
Housing and healthcare costs are outpacing wage increases, it's true. The CPI (which is used to determine real purchasing power) weights them at about ~44% and ~7%, respectively [1]. So together, these constitute about half of the CPI, and yet average real purchasing power is still increasing.
The big factor is where you live. If you live near a wealthy coastal city, you're getting railed by NIMBYs into far higher housing costs than the average American. You're also more likely to be in the minority of Americans who don't already live in a home they own (65% of Americans own their own home), so housing price increases are even worse for you. This group is likely over-represented on HN, but it's not exactly "average".
Cold comfort I'm sure... but migration is a potential solution.
[1]: https://www.bls.gov/cpi/tables/relative-importance/2023.htm