Why are we so confident that women are the reason there are fewer children? In my circle nearly every woman has frozen or is freezing her eggs, surely that shows a desire to have children?
They have also been sold the idea that having children by this method has a high success rate, when in reality it's of the order of one-third.
https://amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/feb/11/why-a-...
Basically they want kids, but don’t want the available people to have them with.