Americans view the economy depends on whether they rent or own
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Neither can a renter, really. Say you're in a 1BR. Even moving down to a tiny studio won't help much, because the tiny studio still costs significantly more now than your 1BR did five years ago. There's no cheaper option to move down to.
Well, there is one: Say your 1BR used to be $1.6k five years ago and is now $2.4k. The only way to get back to $1.6k is to rent a $3.2k 2BR and split the cost with a roommate. That's actually doable.
That works for a single person. But if you were a family renting a 2BR, then your options would be more limited. The analogous thing would be to find a 4BR house and split it with another family, but that's a pretty difficult social arrangement.
The other option is to get a new job in a cheaper place. Often the pay is a little lower, but not in proportion to the reduction in home prices, so you come out ahead, at least as far as your monthly budget is concerned. That neglects price appreciation though. In a regime of rising inequality, real estate is "winner take all", and the unaffordable places will, paradoxically, continue to see the most appreciation. You'll miss out on those capital gains. Better to buy whatever rich people are going to want.
I'm in the suburbs + not in Seattle anymore so everything is cheaper. And the restaurants here are on par with Seattle tbh.
Bigger kitchen + ability to grill means I cook way more. And I'm closer to a supermarket than I was in Seattle. I never had anything walkable in the city but now it's walkable or a 90s drive.
It did take years of practice to learn how to cook with confidence. But I frequently now buy a whole (free range, locally grown) chicken on sale for 99c/lb. And generally just use what's on sale.
More storage space means I can stock up when staples are on sale. Both shelf stable food and stuff like paper products. That's free money.
Add those up and I've saved a lot of money.
There are actually similar reasons motivating us to stay in our central Seattle townhouse, despite feeling "house-poor". Having three grocery stores within ten minutes' walk makes it easy to cook fresh meals at home, which I do most of the time these days; we've dropped the delivery habit. We don't have to drive often anymore - I walk to work, and my wife has an e-bike - so a single older car meets our needs, keeping transportation costs in check. Inflation may have squeezed the slack out of our budget, but we still have a better life here than the one we could make with the money we might save by leaving.
So I've just leaned into it and invested in the house. New water heater/furnace. Remodeling & finishing things. Landscaping. I figure I should be ready for the long haul.
And you can definitely do worse than living in central Seattle in a townhouse :) it's a wonderful city.