This is due to the nature of the apps that maximize revenue generation over customer success. The apps can otherwise trivially be structure with throttles to ensure that almost everyone is getting matched, not to excess, also that only active users are matched, but this would greatly hinder revenue generation. The revenue exists in exploiting the male wallet with shiny things and false promises. If empirical communism buys you mass murder, empirical capitalism buys you rampant monopolization and relentless exploitation.

Perhaps we need something like a non-profit donation-driven Signal Foundation but for free dating. It would use concepts from distributed systems, namely backpressure, throttling, and rate-limiting to ensure that almost everyone can feel a winner.