I'm absolutely certain the real time processing would be unfeasible in any other technology in terms of complexity and the minimal compute resources it's running on.
Modules like broadway, ash, oban, phoenix liveview ... make it not just a pleasure to work with but insanely performant.
With over 20 years of programming experience, I can say with certainty that there is no language that makes me as productive as elixir. It's at least 10x my python productivity (despite being at an expert level in python as well).
(Spawning an asynchronously yielding C# task is ~100B of allocations depending on state machine box size, with very small overall overhead and threadpool handling millions of them, they are cheaper than Elixir tasks which make different tradeoffs (and are subject to BEAM limitations), you can try this out on your machine by running the examples from this thread: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=40435220)
That's often not the limiting factor though. Elixir makes it very easy to have excellent parallelism on your work so you actually take full advantage of processor. The design of the BEAM means that things are naturally quite low latency, and often you lose performance due to just waiting for things (this characteristic is why webservers on the BEAM are pretty fast).
The other key aspect is NX - like ML libraries in Python, Elixir is just orchestrating and the number crunching is done in C libraries or on GPU etc.
Compared to squeezing performance out of multiple cores with the JVM it's absurdly convenient and consumes way less RAM. I have two reasons for still working with the JVM, multiplatform desktop GUI and high quality PDF libraries that support rather low-level aspects of the standard that I need. It's kind of obvious why these things aren't readily available on the BEAM, though.