My guess is that romwell is holding the phone flat, so that the rotation away from you is about a horizontal axis; then you should experience the noncommutativity.
(The resulting orientations are 180 degrees apart, which indeed makes it difficult to say that any one orientation should be the unique average. But this is due to the geodesic structure of the space of rotations, not the noncommutative product that happened to construct these points, see above.)
Now draw a line on the screen from left to right. "Rotate away" by turning the phone around this new axis - so the top of the phone moves away from you, and the bottom of the phone moves closer to you. You end up with the screen upside-down, and also facing away from you.