Is 84 so high? I imagine there are people sending party invites and “lost my phone, new number” messages to more than that.
I understand the op was trying to do a good deed, but if I saw an unexpected message like that I would definitely hit “Delete and Report Junk” instead of just “Delete”.
https://maxread.substack.com/p/whats-the-deal-with-all-those...
Discussion of above - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=31949731