For large models that are well-trained with large context support, ICL seems to work about as well as FT
But there are plenty of tasks that even large, well-trained models struggle with. If the OP is struggling to get useful root-cause analysis for cloud service incidents out of an existing large model, that seems exactly like a use case where a finetune would shine.
Also, finetunes don't have to be just for small models! Medium-sized models like Llama-3.1-70b can be finetuned, and if you want to burn a lot of GPUs you can finetune 405b as well.