Yes, living in one of the, if not the, most desirable cities on the planet comes with additional costs.
The 60% of income on rented housing for people whose income would make them otherwise solidly middle class (to me, this definition includes ownership of real estate) is new.
Something else that's new: the prevalence of managing NYC properties through family trusts from a great distance while its members are domiciled and functionally unemployed in tax-shelter states. Hmm, I wonder if there's any explanatory power to that correlation?
Being housed is highly desirable and has sharply driven up the cost in places where people are housed.