Yes and no, it really wasn't that long ago that Dragon Age had their whole "straight male gamer" controversy because someone was upset at it having diversity.
LGBT representation is a lot better now but that is really only a recent change.
Non sexualized female representation has been lacking for a long time. Even look at Horizon, and you could find people complaining that in Forbidden West they made her face a bit fuller.
It is very easy (just look at this thread) to find people complaining about the idea of "politics" or diversity in gaming and who represents it. Anytime a female character in a sequel gets a less skin tight or revealing outfit it's "politics".
Yes there is a lot of diversity in the gaming audience and who makes the games. A lot of that is more in the open today. But it has not always been like that and for a long time it was largely associated with being straight and male.
Just look at comments like https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41367392 and tell me that the gaming community is just fine. I fully acknowledge that those opinions are likely in the minority, but we see it a lot. I mean Xbox Live had a reputation (and still has) of being very homophobic in the Halo 2 and 3 days.
What exactly does that mean?
No one is stoping you from playing and making games. There isn't a law that says that every game has to be diverse. You can do whatever you want.
If you are playing a heavily story driven game like Spiderman, Horizon, or the many other games from Sony that are diverse and sell quite well. You should want it to reflect reality instead of a narrow view of the world. That is good story telling.
The ability to see yourself in media is a powerful thing. Something that many people take for granted since they are in a group that was already largely represented by video games, movies, tv shows, etc.
If you just want to play a game for the sake of playing a game, skip the story, play online games and just do whatever. That still exists also.
I don't understand what your complaint is.
- dustborn: all-time peak 83 people playing
https://steamdb.info/app/721180/charts/
- concorde: all-time peak 696 people playing
https://steamdb.info/app/2443720/charts/
Gamedev is a business and these projects clearly failed to deliver any return on the investment.
When there are plenty of games with a diverse set of characters that sell just fine. First party Sony games are (generally) a fantastic example of this, that sell very well. SpiderMan 2 is a great example. Horizon, etc.
I already mentioned other games like Overwatch, Mass Effect, Apex, and many others that have diversity are just fine.
Simply having a gay character, a black character, a woman that isn't a sex object, isn't "bending over backwards".
I am sorry but you need to face the fact that gaming is no longer male dominated. That is a good thing. A gay person (or character) existing, is not "political" or shoving it in your face. At least no more than every single straight relationship that I see every single day in media my entire life is “shoved in my face”. But that’s fine because it’s normalized.
A man and a woman can be all over each other and no one bats an eye, but 2 men dare to express the simplest of affection and suddenly it’s “political”.
Edit: I literally see nothing wrong with the comment you linked (https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41367392). Is this what you meant to link?