i know people here like to hate on discord servers, but this is one thing they shine at, it's easy to drop in and just ask a damn simple question to people that are online, in real time
Not realtime, sure, but for me most of that time that's perfectly alright.
For specific questions related to a particular technology: look for the specific Discourse (or forum equivalent) site.
Otherwise, discord as last resort.
And yes, the usual thing: since it's not a forum it's impossible to search the history (yes they have a search button which is useless for howto type questions). It's also impossible to browse it like a forum to see what problems people have encountered before you have them and possibly avoid them, or get better insight in the stuff you're using.
The value of public forums is that their content appears in public searches, can be publicly linked to, and that they facilitate asynchronous, longer-form and longer-term discourse.
With all sincerity, I honestly don’t know what this is supposed to mean.
Right, that was one possibility… my initial thought was that you meant HDD capacity.
But even with that clarification, how is an answerable question? Are you asking people to guess (Feynman Approximation?) how much internet traffic up+down that the average MacBook user has per-day compared to Windows or Linux users? Or did you mean something else?
My left eyebrow raised itself uncontrollably as I typed that out, in fact.
Exactly, you did not. How I see it:
The problem with reading such complaints is that we always only hear one side. That's why posting what you actually asked is valuable information to be able to say whether your complaint is justified or not.
By default, a lot of people immediately side with and upvote the person writing the complaint, but that's actually bad - as I said, we only hear one side of the story that way, and in cases such as this one what was actually said/asked matters and without that piece of information any opinion one forms and comment votes one gives do not have a good basis to stand on.
Furthermore, when people write such complaints but don't see how from the reader's PoV is only biased half-information I wonder if their question showed a similar lack of how it looks like from the PoV of its readers.
You want me to side with you, but you withhold information that would let me evaluate if you are actually in the right.
I don’t do that (downvoting, that is).
No-one I know does that.
It sounds like you had a bad day.
Comment chains on HN and elsewhere are not private one-on-one conversations.
Not accepting that things work the way they do, does not stop things working the way they do.
I get quality answers on IRC. Most other places seem flooded.
(Admittedly, 20! is a big number.)