Just curious, how does she have 15gb of "legally downloaded" music that she didn't pay for?
Copying music on analog media for personal use from a friend is fair use, under the Audio Home Recording Act; in return, the music industry gets a kickback from every blank tape sold to compensate them. However, the AHRA does not apply (in either the fair-use or kickback portions) to copying music from a friend for personal use onto your iPod. It's not clear very many people who aren't specialists understand that home-taping is legal but home-iPodding isn't...
The utter disconnect between actual behavior and what is dictated by law is rather problematic. Seems like some compromise is necessary.