Could you give a concrete, real-life example of this? I have written many recursive-descent parsers and never ran into this problem (Apache Jackrabbit Oak SQL and XPath parser, H2 database engine, PointBase Micro database engine, HypersonicSQL, NewSQL, Regex parsers, GraphQL parsers, and currently the Bau programming language).
I have often heard that Bison / Yacc / ANTLR etc are "superior", but mostly from people that didn't actually have to write and maintain production-quality parsers. I do have experience with the above parser generators, eg. for university projects, and Apache Jackrabbit (2.x). I remember that in each case, the parser generators had some "limitations" that caused problems down the line. Then I had to spend more time trying to work around the parser generator limitations than actually doing productive work.
This may sound harsh, but well that's my experience... I would love to hear from people that had a different experience for non-trivial projects...
I'm arguing that this is not the case in reality, and asked for concrete examples... So again I ask for a concrete example... For memory corruption, there are plenty of examples.
For parsing, I know one example that lead to problems. Interestingly, it was about using a state machine that was then modified (manually) and the result was broken. Here I argue that using a handwritten parser, instead of a state machine that is then manually modified, would not have resulted in this problem. Also, there was no randomized testing / fuzz testing, which is also a problem. This issue is still open: https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/OAK-5367
Also, regexps are used very often in production, and that's definitely a parser-generator of sorts.
The memory corruption example was an analog, but to spell it out: it's easier and faster to write a correct parser using flex/bison than by hand, especially for more complex languages. Parser-generators have their use, and are not fundamentally misguided. That you might want to write your own parser in some cases does not diminish that (nor vice versa).
If you are developing a new grammar it is quite easy to accidentally create ambiguities and a recursive descent parser won't highlight them. This becomes painful when you try to evolve the grammar.
OTOH, an LL(1) grammar can be used to generate a top-down/recursive descent parser, and will always be correct.