I like my job, it can have 4 days. I’d like 3 for myself and my family - doesn’t seem like a big ask!
It’s nutty to me that if I like my job I must want to spend more than half the week doing it. There’s nothing—nothing—I like well enough that I want to devote more than 50% of my best hours a week to it… every single week indefinitely.
I can love my job and still not want to do more than 20 hours a week of it. Those aren’t contradictory feelings.