Yes, they should have a say. This is "the final word". There's a large gap of rationality in between them.
In the USA, you have things like the first sale doctrine, which applies to things like books and audio recordings, but DOES NOT apply to software, especially not software that makes use of services provided by the author (as most mobile apps do). Do not expect, in general, to have a right to use a piece of software, especially a mobile app, in ways not explicitly authorized by the app's vendor. Yes, this also means video games as things you can play forever are going away. Get used to it.