On nut allergies, we have a tradition in India where pregnant and breast feeding women are given every single type of nut over a period of time in a particular sequence. There is something called panjiri that is an amalgam of nuts and ghee, the idea being to provide sustenance to a pregnant mother and then after birth slowly introducing different nuts (and other foods) into the diet over a period of days/weeks. This stuff has been honed over a period of generations.
Nut allergies are fairly uncommon in India. This isn't some silver bullet thing, but just another piece of evidence not to just listen to medical professionals blindly.