We are talking network stack, so there is no actions - just data hand-off to the actual application code.
Someone arrives at your house, gives you a package, says "this is order 123". You thank them, they leave, but then they are hit by a car before they can report this. You unpack the package and use it.
Next day, someone else arrives at your house, gives you a package, says "this is order 123". You thank them, they leave. You know you've already received order 123, so you throw package away without even taking it into the house.
This happens few more times, but you don't care, your trash can is big.
Done! You now have "exactly once delivery".
Now, some might argue this is "exactly once processing" and you should only count what the delivery person does.. but this depends on where you draw the boundary. I draw it at "I am taking the package into the house", and I've only ever took one package there, so it was exactly-once for me.
The key part here is cost. I am assuming that opening package and using its contents is hard and takes a long time; while answering the door and throwing the package away is easy. This is definitely the case with modern networking stack, which re-transmits stuff all the time, and where the loss rate is very low.