I know people raised like this. Their parents were psychologists. You ever hear the old saw about the people raised by psychologists?
People all the time come up and say they already do the stuff on the TCS website. So far the rate of that being true is exactly zero.
PS I do not like psychologists.
The reason the things I'm advocating are especially worth consideration is that they are in line with long standing traditions our society already places very high value on, such as individual freedom and happiness, and control over one's own life.